This programme is a must-see for young parents and parents-to-be. It looks closely at the definition of Discipline, and helps parents to understand that punishment or “lashes” is not Discipline in itself, but only a part of the puzzle. We explore why punishment and in particular “lashes” or “licks” seems to be the main form of discipline for many Caribbean parents. This episode attempts to adjust our thinking and equip us with effective disciplinary approaches. We also meet a young couple who plans never to “hit” their kids.